So if any of you have read any of the postings, I think there were two previous to this one, you will know already that my older sister is getting married. Well shes been just horrible to all of us since she got engaged (one month ago or so).
Now it seems she is pregnant. Just how far along, we don't know! She has yet to go to the doctor. Well we all figured that with this being her second wedding and such, she would decide that she needs to put her baby first. No instead, her and her fiance are going to JP it, then they are going to make us all come down there and have her big ass wedding. WHAT!
Have I mentioned that she is PREGNANT! Hello baby needs to come first. Have I also mentioned that currently there is no income! She was fired from her job, he is still between jobs from a lay off! Jeeze, people!
Common sense, you're gonna go get married at the Justice of the Peace! So let the family throw you a huge party after the baby is born since all of us are in Nebraska and North Carolina, then its all done! None of us can afford to come down when the baby is born, then turn around and come down for the wedding a month or two later. This really is what she wants us to do. Like we are made of money.
Today I told her that I can only come down once next year. I will come down when bean is born, then I cant go back for a while, until I have vacation time again. That could be near a year! I told her that after we made out our budget, that I was lucky to get the one trip. I am getting ready to buy a house, I have to pay my bills before I can do anything.
To this she says "well I guess you just don't love me!" WHAT!!!!!! Are you freaking kidding me?? I love her so much it hurts, but I want her to use her head! Now she really is Bridezilla!!!
8 comments:
That is family sometimes..you can pick your friends, you can't always pick your family.
And unfortunately some people need attention...whether its positive or negative.
Don't let her make you feel guilty for also prioritizing your life. Tell her you would be more than happy to take time off work to come down for the wedding, if she would pay the ticket.
I think that is more than fair. Not to mention this is her second wedding.
That is just my opinion.
Thank you sooo much for not thinking I am evil. I actually had a lady tell me that I should be more than willing to make both trips! Hello airfare is crazy!
I just feel, like you said, its her second wedding. She passed up the big froo froo wedding the first time, she shouldnt expect it now, under these circumstances. I feel like her need for attention is being put in front of the unborn child.
Think she is a bridezilla...what till motherzilla attacks.
You may wish for bridezilla.
lol thats whats funny, she was like this before she is just worse now that she has a reason to get attention! shes always been needy! case in point: when i graduated from high school, she got married the next weekend so that no one would come to my graduation and the focus would be on her. yep all my cards said, see you at lisa's wedding! That was soooo annoying!
There is too much stress going on with having a baby to have to add the stress of a wedding. In fact, it may affect her health! For the first three months after a baby is born, you don't want to do much of anything, let alone a full wedding!
The only thing you can do is the best you can.
shotgun weddings ARE THE BEST.
and there is no way possible anyone could ever consider you evil. you are sweetness and light.
OMG! It is too bad she has to be that way. But I have seen perfectly sane women turn into complete lunatics when faced with planning their weddings. Throw hormones into the mix, and . . . well, just be lucky you live far away! :-)
ha im glad i live way far away! I love her but I could just scream with all her demands!
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