Thursday, April 21, 2011

The New Me

Well today I made a big step.  I took down one of the two remaining pictures.  I replaced it with one of me and my beloved Elyssa.  I need to print out more pictures, but we move next week...  So I havent yet. 

My friend Ken says I should burn every picture I have.  I wont do that though.  Whats the point.  I would still remember every thing, who needs pictures when they can access my memories? 

I decided I will NEVER allow myself to sit around and cry over a man again, not over one who moved on so damn fast anyways.   I am, from this point on, going to be the epitome of strong.  If no one else sees it, I DONT GIVE A SHIT!  I will prove once and for all, to myself, that I can do this and be happy.  I dont need any man to make me happy.  I have my girls.  Thats all I need. 

I may never get married, or have children, but damn it I will make other things happen in my own way.  Just today one of my best friends and biggest supporters had a baby, which I am already in love with from half way across the country.  I can love her babies and all my other friends kids.  God will show me my path.  I may not agree with him all the time but I will follow where he leads me.

Now lets see how long this new found strength lasts!

2 comments:

Kristin said...

I like the sleek new blog as well. And it sound like you got the right attitude, even if you make a few missteps along the way you have your heart on the right path. I will always wish you the best. And remember you are not doing this alone.

Unknown said...

Thank you. I know I'm still gonna have some rough days. I know now though that I will make it. It's just gonna take time to do it.